In 1988 when we moved our family from upstate New York to Hong Kong, I had moments of weakness during my battle with Culture Shock, during which I occasionally complained about our new home. (OK- actually I complained a lot). Then my husband had me join him on a business trip to India for a week. After seeing India, I didn't complain about living in Hong Kong anymore.
I had a similar experience this month. President Herrington asked us to visit the island of St. Vincent to learn the duties of the senior couple there as they are going home in March. He may have us visit on occasion to help out the missionaries. I know you can't tell from this photo - but trust me- it was a lot more backward than Guadeloupe. It's one of those many places that fell apart after the British left. Anyway, now I am counting my blessings!
Here are some of them:
1. We have potable water. The mission requires us to have three filters on our tap, but really, we have been places where you have to keep your mouth closed in the shower.
2. We have electricity. It has only gone out once in the month we have been here.
3. We have a car. With air conditioning!
4. We have an apartment. With air conditioning!
5. Although driving here is an exercise in insanity, I think it is more scary in St. Vincent where the roads are more narrow and winding and have two foot deep uncovered gutters on each side.
The biggest blessings in the mission are the faithful members. When we visited one of the church buildings in St. Vincent ( actually the upstairs of a house in a town with no grocery store, gas station, restaurant, anything) we met a wonderful sister who shared with us her desire to go to the temple this year. She is very poor in material things but very rich in the spirit.
We asked how she knew the church was true when the missionaries found and taught her family. In answering, she related a story about her daughter, who when she was very little, had a dream about her deceased grandmother. In her dream, the grandmother said that it was very important that she ( the grandmother) be baptized. This happened on three different occasions. For years, the family didn't know what it meant, until the missionaries came to their home. They explained the Plan of Salvation and the ancient Christian ordinance of vicarious baptism for the dead which is performed only in LDS temples. This sister had tears come to her eyes as she shared how much this meant to her, as she loved her mother very much. It was not long before her whole family joined the church.
This story gave me a new perspective that made me feel gratitude for a doctrine I sometimes take for granted. A change in perspective ... one of the great themes of the gospel - one of the great themes of serving a mission.